Question, boys...why is it that 85% of you still start chat conversations with a/s/l? I think we've moved a bit beyond that. I'm starting to understand why some gurls on yahoo instantly iggie anyone who sends them a message like that. Honestly, it's getting tiring. And I suppose while I'm on the subject I'll rant a little. I've always been of the mind that I should be polite and talk to anyone who sends me a message online, that is until such time as they have proven they are a totall pig. So keeping that fact in mind, I've never blocked my pm's, but you can't imagine the sick things guys will send you (actually if you are a female who has chatted on yahoo then I'm sure you can). It's enough to keep a girl out of chat completely. I wish I could repeat some of things people have said to me so you could get a small taste of the insanity, but it's all much too dirty. Anyways, here is a clue for all you boys (cause I have never gotten an icky message from another transsexual or gg) interested in chatting with me or any other woman on the internet.

1. DO NOT start a message to someone with a/s/l, especially when their profile is filled out completely with all of that information, don't waste our time if you can't do something simple like that, I guarantee we won't want to talk to you.

2. If a woman is dressed respectfully in their profile (as in they aren't "hanging out" all over the place) DO NOT send them a message asking,
"Can I lick you?"
"Show me your ****!"
"How big is your ****?"
or any other disgustingly similar thing. Listen guys, if a girl spends a lot of time trying to achieve a fem appearance and they aren't spouting obscenities in the main chat room, then chances are they aren't looking for those kind of advances. Check the profile, if she's filled out the fields and isn't naked in her pics then she probably has respect for herself and you should give her that respect. This isn't to say that there aren't women on yahoo who are looking for those kinds of lines from guys, but chances are they are in rooms like "**** Sucking Sissy Sluts" or "TS Gurls For Hot Sex" so go look for them there.

3. If a woman is on cam and she is nice enough to allow you to view her, be polite. If you ask someone to show you their whatever and they decline, don't ask the same question 5 more times. It's just going to get you booted and iggied. Some women are glad to bare all on cam and that's fine, but some aren't on cam for that so don't make that assumption. Remember that we are on cam for you guys (and gals) for free, no one's paying us to do it. So if someone isn't willing to show you what you want, go look for it somewhere else.

I suppose that would be a good start. Just try to use some common sense. We aren't all horny little sex demons so don't treat us like that. If you use a little tact I guarantee you'll get a lot farther than running around, peppering rooms with pm's asking for nudie shots. Oh and if any of you want to catch up with me on yahoo, I'm there almost every day. Andreaportman